What would you do if your spouse cheated on you and there are kids involve?

Would you get a divorce like normal people do or you would try and work things and stay together for the kids? My husband claim that his friend played a prank on him writing love letters to a handicap girl using my husbands email address. He said that he was pretending to be him when was writing those love letters. What do you think? Would call that cheating? Would you believe his BS? What would you do if your spouse cheated on you and there are kids involve?
Even if it was a joke how old is your husband and his friends to play a ';prank'; like that? They need to grow up. Yes, I would still get divorced. Staying together for the kids is no good. People that stay together for the kids are the same people that think that kids are dumb and don't catch on to problems. Kids need to grow up with parents who love each other, touch and kiss each other, and are GENUINELY kind to each other. No matter how good people think they are about faking happiness in front of kids, they're sending wrong messages. Instead of convincing their kids they are happy, they raise them with morals that revolve around: unhappiness, lying, hiding feelings, and lack of affection. In the words of Dr. Phil: ';KIDS WOULD RATHER COME FROM A BROKEN HOME THAN LIVE IN A BROKEN HOME';!!What would you do if your spouse cheated on you and there are kids involve?
I would do as my sister did, divorce and move on. She tried, and tried, and tried and it did not work. You lose all trust and things just crumble from there. She had a daughter at the time, but that did not stop her. I think she did what was best since they fought a lot.





As far as that situation, I would be leery. How did his ';friend'; get a hold of his email and password? If he knew what his friend was doing, he should have changed his password the first instance it happened or told him to stop using his email and start using his. Love letters as cheating? Emotional cheating, but not physical cheating. Emotional can be as bad. I would not believe him since he has had the option to change his password and/or email name.





What you decide to do about this is really up to you. If he is showing an honest effort to save his marriage, then I say go for it. He has to put in the effort on his part too, meaning you do some of the work but not all. Your pretty much already there, but there still has to be effort on both parts.
I would get a divorce for the kids. It's better for them to grow up with one parent in a stable household than to be raised in a two-parent family where there is constant fighting or worse still where cheating is accepted.
I would divorce, but remain single and not remarry. I would dedicate my life to the raising of the kids, enjoy the beautiful things in life and redefine my purpose in life.
He is such a liar, I would divorce him. That is definitely cheating and once a cheater always a cheater.
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