Tuesday, August 24, 2010

How would you handle it if your spouse said they loved you but wanted out?

How does one handle it when the spouse says that they want out of the marriage. The proclaim they still love you but that is not enough any more. No cheating has taken place, just stuck in a terrible rut.


Both are married to their jobs now.How would you handle it if your spouse said they loved you but wanted out?
I would handle it by looking for a place to live, by trying to move on and get my life in order.How would you handle it if your spouse said they loved you but wanted out?
As someone who's gone through a similar situation, I can honestly say that sometimes love really doesn't conquer all. You can love someone tremendously, but it doesn't automatically forgive mean or hurtful things that were said, and it doesn't guarantee that passion and tenderness will always be there. Sometimes people aren't a great match for each other and because there is love, there's a desire to want both parties to try and find the best possible happiness and fulfillment. Even if it means it's not with each other.





If this relates to you, I'd suggest marriage counseling to see if the love that's left can't save the marriage. Church counseling is often an effective, inexpensive way to see if counseling might help.
If love in not enough, there is no real love. No one with their five senses would leave the love of their life. How do you handle it? Well, it`s tough and sad, but you have to accept it and move on because you can obligate your spouse to stay. And if they`re married to their jobs maybe that`s what they need to focus on then, their jobs. If you`re willing to let your job replace your spouse, you`re better off without each other.
I'd say he's already checked out. And he (or she!) clearly doesn't love the other anymore if they want out, as you say. Someone who really loved their spouse would work to get out of the rut.





And it's truly pathetic for anyone to be married to their job...you're sacrificing close personal relationships for money and to make money for someone else. SAD.
You and only you know how this marriage is going .. all i can say is this : would you want to be with someone who doesnt wanna be with u for the sake of love ?





answer this question very honestly and it will lead u to what to do
I think there is some cheating going on, she isn't telling you the truth. Either that or you aren't giving much attention. She is getting attention from someone else.
honestly,





I would say if you want out than get out...i am not really one to keep someone some place they do not want to be,.
I would help him pack.


I don't want anyone who doesn't want me.
taht's awful and heartbreaking
Sorry..they are cheating...
I would let him go.
I would bow out.
I would take it as a lie!
It hurts...but let'm go.
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