How do you feel if you spouse take fro your money to support her family?

How do you feel if you spouse take from your money to support her family?How do you feel if you spouse take fro your money to support her family?
It depends on what you mean by support.


Both my parents got VERY ill, (passed away, soon after), and my husband WILLINGLY paid thousands to help them. He paid carers, as well as medical for both my parents, and if his mother lands in the same situation I would insist that we do the same for her.


THAT IS MARRIAGE!


for parents it is good, for siblings, we say sorry, stir your own pot!How do you feel if you spouse take fro your money to support her family?
What's mine is hers, what's hers is mine. That includes money and family. If her family needed something and we were able to help, then why wouldn't we?





I know that if someone in my family needed help, she'd be leading the charge. I thought that was something that we are supposed to do, lookout for one another.





I really don't keep score on stuff like that. When her daughter needed cash to fix her car, I was glad we had the resources to help.





















Well, in our marriage... all monies are OURS, with the exception of birthday monies or Christmas. Of course, for those occasions, we each get the same amounts from Grandparents, parents, etc. We're military, so instead of shipping gifts, we usually get money or gift cards... which I love! :-)





So, I wouldn't care if he wanted to send money to help out his family, as he wouldn't mind if I sent some to mine when they're in need. We both work, we both bring home the bacon, and we both can choose what to do with it.
I'd cut her off from my money, plain and simple. I'd change all my accounts so she didn't have access. Then tell her if she wants to support her family she better get a job to do it. But she'd have to contribute to our expenses also.
I think she's using you because that's what my husbands ex-wife did. She was really mean to him and gave him (his own money) an allowance of something so ridiculously small... she was basically sending money back to her family without him knowing. Be careful.
Given the background of my husband's family - I'd be bent! However, that said, my husband would never use our money to support his family and vice versa on my side.
My bro in law supported his wife's family. Once his wife received her green card and her family was in the U.S. she then divorced him.
If you do not like the way she spends your money...then have her get her own job and let her spend her money the way she wants
I do not think it is right. I would be upset.

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