What to do if you find your spouse is thinking of cheating, after reading her email?

This is to expand on my previous question... Reading Her email to a friend she explained that she has lost 100lbs and that now she is being noticed by outside interests and may not be able to hold back. She also confides that I am in the past with my health, and bring down our kids with bad eating habits. So while I don't know if she is having an affair I sure am concerned the table is set. My choices here?What to do if you find your spouse is thinking of cheating, after reading her email?
Lose the pounds pal,this is you're motivation,you could keep her or lose her,but the fact is you will get interest yourself and god will that make you feel better and her feel worse.


Try to work things out,have it out with her.


The dredded deed hasn't been done and could just be banter.What to do if you find your spouse is thinking of cheating, after reading her email?
If that is what was written in the email she is absolutely right then. She lost weight and people are notice her and you are fat *** who don't want to move his *** and work out. There are millions of beautiful wives who get alot of interests and that does not mean they are cheating. Im sure you do not want to hear my answer but that is what I think. All you can do is beautify yourself!
You communicate with your wife. You tell her that you saw the email and you want to talk about it. You supported her when she was 100 pounds overweight and you don't think it is fair that she is going to dump you so quickly. You want her to be happy and feel great and you want to feel great too. Husbands and wives are suppose to life each other up through better and worse. Don't just sit back and wait. Say something.
confront her with what u read, seek therapy, or divorce her before she has a chance to hurt u any farther. sounds as if her reasons are flimsy and she is just trying to justify what she is doing herself. now that she has lost the weight men are probably looking at her, flirting, maybe this is something that never happened to her before and her ego is getting stroked like it never was in the past. eventually she will be tempted, and will cheat. its whats on her mind. what u think about allot u usually do.
Talk to her about it. Tell her you've read her emails and that she's only getting the attention now that she has lost weight, when you were there for her the whole time!
If you had established healthy communication with her, you would not be needing to read her mail to find this out. There is your problem.
Divorce her, She is a Ho! She is sleeping with someone else. I would get checked out for STDs.
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i have been through this sort of...


first off if she truly loves you then sure she might like the attention but at the end of the day its you she comes home to you..she may be right in her telling you its time to change your eating habits because kids are like sponges..i know you have heard this before..they do what they see especially when it comes to their parents or people of great influence..when women confide in other women its because its more relatable and sometimes we just need to vent...there is no real way to know that shes cheating unless you catch her in the act..we dont need another sherlock holmes so dont set anything up...show her how much you care and make an effort dont just sit and get depressed because you ';think'; shes having an affair...im also going to tell you this... talk to her ....not about the situation because you reading something that she finds to be personal will only hurt her and may just drive her to cheat..just tell her you love her and make her see how much you care and that you realy truly love her unconditionally...ONE MORE THING...prayer never hurts.the bible says when one findeth a wife, he findeth a good thing...work it out