Tuesday, August 24, 2010

If my spouse is military should i report him for having an affair?

If your spouse is a member of the military and is having an affair with another married military member and you have proof to the affair (emails, text msg ect.) should i turn them both in. Also it has been ongoing for over a year.If my spouse is military should i report him for having an affair?
Up to you. Here is the repercusions: up to 2/3rds of pay gone, extra duty for 45 days, restriction for 45 days. Reduction in rank, which is more money. All of these things can happen. If they decide to, they can separate them from the military.If my spouse is military should i report him for having an affair?
You could, but the military tends to turn a blind eye to this sort of thing. What happens TDY, stays TDY is the motto. If they did act, it could affect you as well. Punishment could be forfeited pay - I'm sure you need the money. Also, if you want to punish the guy, just leave him, but as a military spouse you should kinda expect this and if they keep it on the down low, and keep themselves clean, let it go. Soon one or the other party will get orders to a new base and the problem resolves itself.
Go ahead, if you plan to dump him and not rely on his money. He'll lose rank, pay, and may do time in the brig. It's against the Uniform Code of Military Justice to have an affair. Also, he isn't going to like you a whole lot for busting him.
Not enough evidence. The military requires visual proof (video or an eyewitness who is reliable) to the actual sex act.
You can turn them in... only if you want to get them into serious trouble.
Your first answer is correct, it could hurt you as well.
These things CAN happen, but for the most part, nothing happens.
certainly, do it!
if you have ABSOLUTE proof then yes you should
grow up.





Why don't you ask yourself why he had the affair, or would that hit too close to home?
i would. he should know that if u cheat on ur wife there will be punishments.

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