What are the ten most important things you look for in a spouse/significant other?

Likewise, what are the ten least important things you look for/ ten things you wouldn't want?What are the ten most important things you look for in a spouse/significant other?
over obsessive


trust issues


crazy


mean


abusive


not sweet


careless


dishonestWhat are the ten most important things you look for in a spouse/significant other?
First you want to know what is on YOUR list before you ask others. If you value things like reading, you want someone who reads. You make your list, put the things that you wouldn't tolerate to be different first and stick with them, then you add things that aren't that important. Spend a season with this person, dating, seeing that you or that girl do not get angry easily or upset if you or she break the date. Is this person positive or negative about everything? Some negative is ok but most of the day, the time, negative can really bring you down, not good environment to bring kids up in either. Stick to your list, do not expect people to change, they don't. You don't always need to have your way, compromise is important. But seeing them in good times, when they are happy and bad times to see how they accept ';no'; is very important. Do they go and constantly return things at the store, they are not happy with anything? Will they be happy with you, after the honeymoon is over? Do you constantly have to spend $$ on them, to show that you love them. If they are happy always, there is something wrong, it won't last forever. Everybody gets upset at times, over big things, over little things, but how do they accept rejection, unhappy moments.


Make your list on what you can't accept anything but. Then make the list that is good, but you will bend a little. If she/he is always thinking of self, selfish that isn't good.

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