Thursday, July 29, 2010

How can i convince my spouse to have a baby?

I know he wants one but he keeps saying its not a good time but we both work, have a good home and are stable.How can i convince my spouse to have a baby?
If you need to convince him, then it is not the right time. You both need to feel ready. It's worth waiting for. :-)How can i convince my spouse to have a baby?
He may want a kid but obviously he doesnt feel to secure about it. I would say wait it out. It is so much better for you both to be ready and wiling to have a baby then it is to have a baby when hes not fully ready. I know it sucks to wait and be patient about this kind of subject but try to do so. Trust me you will love having a husband wanting a ready to be a dad then a dad just caught of gaurd and not fully focused on the family and the kid.
I saw an answer to a similar question by Jerry Hall (Mick Jagger's ex) in the Times a couple of weeks ago. She said that if it was left up to men the human race would have become extinct.


If you are ready %26amp; you think you can afford it then go for it.


Men are generally rather weak/self centred creatures %26amp; they often get cold feet when they think about having babies.


I know a lovely woman who grew up in a large family %26amp; who loves children. She got married understanding they would have a family but meanwhile she worked %26amp; made a successful career. Then her husband said he'd changed his mind %26amp; didn't want kids. She didn't feel she could go ahead %26amp; she loved him so stuck with him. After 20 years he left her for a much younger woman with whom he has 4 children. My friend eventually re-married but it was too late for her to have kids.


I have heard many similar stories.


Spend the next 12 months thinking it over %26amp; preparing things %26amp; it it seems right then just get pregnant.


If you don't feel able to do this %26amp; he is still unwilling then ditch him %26amp; find someone who does want a family with you. Don't be left alone without husband and children


Good Luck


Good Luck.
maybe there's something else that he is worried about, talk to him about it without putting pressure on him


ask him and let him know you'll understand


then support him and ask him to support you as well in wanting a little one
A child is not a toy, after it is born must think how to educate and what values to believe .. the family is an important value as a religion and as the ability to love the world .. must learn to believe in their aspirations and make him a man or a woman capable of living in the world .. failure would be something unforgivable ..
';Convincing'; someone to have a baby can have disastrous results. Wait till you are both ready. Remember, it is not a priority for most men. He will be aware that a baby is a passion killer - for decades - you girls only seem to realize that once the baby arrives.
Do not be sneaky about it. If he feels it's not a good time then wait. It takes two and you both need to be on equal footing to be fair. If he wanted to do a major change in life and you thought it wasn't the right time you would want to be respected...right?
You dont have to sort of convince him - that understanding needs to come from both sides! Discuss this with him - give it some more time until everything is settled %26amp; see where you are! Dont rush into it..
Don't try to convince him If you get pregnant and he's not ready he will end up resenting you and the baby Wait until you both want it
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That old chestnut





Listen honey he don't want no sprogs with you.
take advantage of him when he is asleep or ask a workmate

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