How would you find out if your spouse is submissive?

Usually people are dominant or submissive depending on various things. Do you a good way to find if your spouse is sexually dominant nature or submissive nature?How would you find out if your spouse is submissive?
Strike up a gentle, non-judgmental discussion about your fantasies. Discuss whether or not you would want to role play, or if they are just mental turn-ons. For example, you might have a fantasy involving hot wax, but in reality you would just find that too painful to be pleasurable. The point is that you just have to have the conversation.How would you find out if your spouse is submissive?
There are a number of possible ways.





-You can have an upfront and nonjudgmental conversation with him about it. Don't ask him if he's submissive because that'd seem like you're accusing him, ask him if he has any fantasies involving control, mention how maybe you have fantasies of being in control or being controlled and see how he takes that.





- Casually mention that a girlfriend of yours told you a fun story about how she tied her boyfriend down or told him dirty things while he was pleasing her (or switch it if you think he may be more dominant) and see how your spouse responds.





- See what sort of porn he looks at if he looks at any when you're not around.





Honestly I think the first suggestion would be your best option, it takes less time and will give you the most in depth answer. Best of luck!
If you truly love your spouse, these things are irrelevant for you. Love is all about giving. Remember, Submissiveness has earned a tag of surrender in all these years. But any compromise achieved by a couple to keep their marriage going is something private between them. Men like to behave submissive in some situations. Women would like to dominate in some situations. So as such there are no hard and fast rules. When people allow and bring rigidity and stereotypes into their relationships, they are unknowingly allowing people to interfere in their matters and that paves the gate for divorces to happen.
Well you could talk to them about it or just give it a try. They will like it or not.
Ask your spouse what does he or she preffers!