I've tried to call them but too busy. The state web site doesn't give time frame. Just taking a long shot on here. Thanks for your time.How does it take for them to process a Income Allocation for a Non Obligated Spouse in Michigan?
Shouldnt take over 15 business days. If longer contact them to see why.
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
How is a woman who openly tolerates her spouse's fooling around, considered to have good judgement?
For that matter wouldn't be insulting for a woman, that of all women she would be considered 'most qualified' to run for president?How is a woman who openly tolerates her spouse's fooling around, considered to have good judgement?
Chris S, Hillary is not 35 yrs old, she is 61 yrs. old.
She is not qualified , that 35 yrs she claims is total bs. She was only Bills wife when he was Governor, and his wife in the white house, before that she was a crooked lawyer. She will NOT make good judgements. She spent 8 yrs in the white house, but so has the pastry chef. Guess them women thinks it is okay to have a husband who has many girlfriends and rapes a few along the way. Not me!
Whether in Arkansas or in Washington, Hillary Clinton has spent decades parlaying her husband's political clout into both money and power and criminal activities . How did that benefit anybody but the Clintons. Commander in Stupidity is what she would be.
For those people whose memories are short, go on the Internet and look up Whitewater, the confidential raw FBI files on hundreds of Republican politicians that somehow -- nobody apparently knows how -- ended up in the Clinton White House illegally.
Look up the sale of technology to China that can enable them to more accurately hit American cities with nuclear missiles. Then look up the money that found its way to the Clintons through devious channels.
Look up Bill Clinton's firing of every single U.S. Attorney in the country, which of course included those who were investigating him for corruption as governor of Arkansas.
It may be old-fashioned to talk about character and integrity but they can have a lot more to do with the fate of this nation, death of it's citizens, than ';experience'; at playing political games, the games that only fatten Clinton's own pockets and adds more members to their crime family. And you know what happen's if you cross a Clinton.
Ms. Clinton does not have the faintest idea on how a war is run, that things change on the ground, strategies change and a sound military must adapt to change.
Hillary Clinton is unfit for command!
';Politics is not a bad profession. If you succeed there are many rewards, if you disgrace yourself you can always write a book, like Bill did';
';Hillary wrote ,It Takes a Village'; pure socialism in it.How is a woman who openly tolerates her spouse's fooling around, considered to have good judgement?
If you want to play dirty you should answer this: How is a man who smoked a crack pot considered to have good judgment?
This has got to be the best question ever asked on Y!A... Besides that, she still isn't qualified in my opinion...
You're blaming her for her husband's actions? No one can monitor anyone, and maybe they have a stronger conncetion in their partnership than that. It was good judgement to stand by him when it became public. It was good judgement to do it for her child, and good judgement not to have a meltdown in public. As I recall, too, she was very miffed that he did that.
Do you know that almost every President has had affairs and/or a mistress? JKF makes Bill look like a monk. But back then, the media protected these things. Not anymore. She should not be held accountable for her husband's actions,, especially when it comes to her qualifications as President. One has nothing to do with the other.
Why is forgiveness not good judgement? Why is trying to make your marriage work as opposed to tearing your family apart not good judgement? Her husband made some mistakes. So does that mean that she'd be a better person if she were bitter and vengeful? I don't think so. She chose to forgive and move on. I don't think that it is bad judgement to try to hold your life together and move forward. And I don't think her personal life is any of our business, especially since SHE hasn't done anything wrong.
She didn't fool around so why is her judgement in question? As to why spouses stay together after one or the other cheats, that is really between them and whether they can rebuild their marriage. They might just love each other and be true friends.
Sure seems like not only great testament to family values but also a great example of christian forgiveness - something the other side mouths but exhibits none of.
Why aren't you questioning the judgement of Guiliani or Gingrich - both well known cheaters?
Personally, I don't believe that he really fooled around. I think it was a practiced political scandal to attract attention away from some real issues. Whether or not he really did it was inconsequential--it was planned. Still, I don't think voting for Hillary is wise. Especially if you don't want to be forced to spend 20% of your income on Health Care, or else be fined and eventually jailed.
First part is fairly irrelevant. Though definitely not in the very positive category by most people's accounts. I am sure that Hillary herself wished it had never happened. Though apparently there was a very long pattern of such in Bill's past.
Perhaps she is the most qualified to run for president. She seems to eat up whatever it is about that part of politics, while others shy away from it because of conscience? I would say that Condi Rice is better in many areas improving intelligence and experience. Definintely a better musician and no husbands in her closet, so to speak.
* Sorry - Bush is not running and apparently Bill Clinton sort of is ..... remember two for one deal, part deux. So, Bush is off the table and Bill Clinton is back on. It's like taking away their cake and getting to eat yours, how delightful!
Get over it, Bush was re-elected by a wide margin and now he is not running. Billary will be good for some laughs, hopefully only in the campaign and not in the soiled White House, again. Maybe Hillary will be the FIRST President Clinton to get a majority of the vote????
It shows family values and pride and love beyond petty
trifling things duh
What makes you say she ';openly'; tolerated it? Were you there in the White House in the days following the Starr report? A fly on the wall, perhaps? Did you not think she read him the riot act? That she took into consideration their daughter and her own beliefs about commitment before opting to stay put? Did you stop to think, hey, this isn't my business any more than Monica was Ken Starr's?
Yes, she chose to stay with her husband..I can't see that as some character flaw. She is a strong woman, perfectly capable of leading our country. You're just mud-slinging.
People cheat every day...
and people are staying together every day.
It's harder to stay together.
It's easy to call it quits.
Besides... she is not going to let some hooker breakup her family.
Yes; as I'm aware, the family history of all candidates, but Romney, are highly questionable backgrounds for a US President.
Many women (and Men for that matter) stick by their spouses during all kinds of hardships....who the hell are YOU to judge?
So out of all the men running for office (republican AND democrat) wouldn't it be insulting that out of all the possibilities in all of America, That THESE particular men would be considered the most qualified?
What's good for the Goose is good for the Gander.
I think that you are way off the mark with these beliefs. Hillary Clinton showed a great deal of Class by her action as First Lady. She also demonstrated her deep sense of Family Values by staying in her marriage and 'working' on keeping her family together. Obviously Bill made a huge error in judgment, but whatever happened was a private and personal thing between Hillary and her FAMILY and we should not be involved. If you believe that for one moment JFK was loyal to his wife or George Washington (all those signs that said he slept here-wonder what THAT was about?) for that matter, then you are incredibly naive. Infidelity has been around since the beginning of time and I don't see it ending anytime soon. If anything I believe that Hillary has shown that she is strong enough to persevere through what must have been a difficult situation made worse by the news media and maintain her dignity. I believe that all women should aspire to have have her courage and fortitude rather than criticize her for her strong values.
It doesn't matter if you have a (D) behind your name.
Remember, Sen kennedy killed a woman yet he's a dnc hero.
Well, Hitlery is stupid enough to support a war when the Americans kill innocent children and steal their oil.
So, I am not surprised at all.
P.S.
We need change and the name of this change is: OBAMA.
If by ';tolerate'; you mean ';be okay with';, then I'd have to disagree with you.
Sane or insane, any woman would not be okay with something like that. I just think she was sucking it up. It's a nice quality to have when you're running for president.
Some of the smartest people and the most capable leaders in history were not what we'd consider smart in their personal affairs. I'm not necessarily endorsing Hillary, I'm just saying what she tolerates in her private life has nothing to do with her politics.
who knows
um excuse me ami liasion,
but monica lewinsky was caught on tape telling a friend about how she was screwing bill clinton yeah i doubt that it was just a scandal to ';cover up'; other issues
This woman was so gracious that she went through the most heart breaking and humiliating episodes of her life in public's eye and scrutiny and handled herself w/grace.
She is all the more respected for her handling of immense pressure from conservatives who always want to destroy her family and the bad words said behind her back. She has shown herself to be a leader in ALL areas of life.
She kept the country and her family together. This is not an ordinary man/woman infidelity. This is our national leadership. Have some respect. When Clinton was in office and we had a huge surplus and many people had money in their pockets and now they don't who cares who is fooling around?
At least he was not angry to go bomb places and get our soldiers killed.
A happy president = Peace %26amp; Prosperity
P.S. Kosovo was a peace mission to stop genocide in eastern europe and one of the few most successful attempts that saved thousands perhaps millions of lives
You are right, Bush has been foolin around for 7 years. Why bring up his poor wife?????
I agree with PR Lady, Hillary had her reasons for staying with him and it was to run for and hold public offices and to eventually be'; President.'; If voting for the war is bad judgement on her part then our whole House and Senate are guilty of no judgement because they used the same judgement she did.
In that case.. Is a candidate (Obama) showing good judgment by voting on a bill to send tax breaks to oil companies, when we're in trillions of dollars of debt? What about his statement regarding Pakistan?
Her personal life is irrelevant.. She's a strong %26amp; assertive woman, she will make a wonderful president..
Do you know what has happened behind closed doors in the Clinton household in the past 7 years? I didn't think so.
So why do you say she tolerates it? Maybe for political purposes, she doesn't want to make a big deal about it, or maybe she knew what she was getting into all those years ago? Fact is, many spouses forgive their loved ones for many offenses, including adultery. Who are we to judge whether she should or shouldn't forgive him?
I can't see how her decision in her marriage would indicate how qualified she is to run for President. Besides, how do you define qualified? She is 35 years old, a native born American, and lives here. She is qualified according to the Constitution of the U.S.
That being said, I will be voting for Obama. He is more Liberal, which is what we need.
This is something I always found amazing about american politics.
Bush ran two terms and was reponsible for creating a deficit, lying to the whole country, invading another and destroying thousands of lives. He is still there.
Clinton creates a surplus and doesn't start any needless wars, but commits an indescretion in the oral office and gets kicked out in disgrace.
Years later I can't believe anyone can stretch the link that far to Hillary. You are joking aren't you?
She had her motives to tolerate that; RUNNING FOR THE PRESIDENCY!!!!
She's stupid. She supported this dumb war too... Thats not good Judgment !
Chris S, Hillary is not 35 yrs old, she is 61 yrs. old.
She is not qualified , that 35 yrs she claims is total bs. She was only Bills wife when he was Governor, and his wife in the white house, before that she was a crooked lawyer. She will NOT make good judgements. She spent 8 yrs in the white house, but so has the pastry chef. Guess them women thinks it is okay to have a husband who has many girlfriends and rapes a few along the way. Not me!
Whether in Arkansas or in Washington, Hillary Clinton has spent decades parlaying her husband's political clout into both money and power and criminal activities . How did that benefit anybody but the Clintons. Commander in Stupidity is what she would be.
For those people whose memories are short, go on the Internet and look up Whitewater, the confidential raw FBI files on hundreds of Republican politicians that somehow -- nobody apparently knows how -- ended up in the Clinton White House illegally.
Look up the sale of technology to China that can enable them to more accurately hit American cities with nuclear missiles. Then look up the money that found its way to the Clintons through devious channels.
Look up Bill Clinton's firing of every single U.S. Attorney in the country, which of course included those who were investigating him for corruption as governor of Arkansas.
It may be old-fashioned to talk about character and integrity but they can have a lot more to do with the fate of this nation, death of it's citizens, than ';experience'; at playing political games, the games that only fatten Clinton's own pockets and adds more members to their crime family. And you know what happen's if you cross a Clinton.
Ms. Clinton does not have the faintest idea on how a war is run, that things change on the ground, strategies change and a sound military must adapt to change.
Hillary Clinton is unfit for command!
';Politics is not a bad profession. If you succeed there are many rewards, if you disgrace yourself you can always write a book, like Bill did';
';Hillary wrote ,It Takes a Village'; pure socialism in it.How is a woman who openly tolerates her spouse's fooling around, considered to have good judgement?
If you want to play dirty you should answer this: How is a man who smoked a crack pot considered to have good judgment?
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This has got to be the best question ever asked on Y!A... Besides that, she still isn't qualified in my opinion...
You're blaming her for her husband's actions? No one can monitor anyone, and maybe they have a stronger conncetion in their partnership than that. It was good judgement to stand by him when it became public. It was good judgement to do it for her child, and good judgement not to have a meltdown in public. As I recall, too, she was very miffed that he did that.
Do you know that almost every President has had affairs and/or a mistress? JKF makes Bill look like a monk. But back then, the media protected these things. Not anymore. She should not be held accountable for her husband's actions,, especially when it comes to her qualifications as President. One has nothing to do with the other.
Why is forgiveness not good judgement? Why is trying to make your marriage work as opposed to tearing your family apart not good judgement? Her husband made some mistakes. So does that mean that she'd be a better person if she were bitter and vengeful? I don't think so. She chose to forgive and move on. I don't think that it is bad judgement to try to hold your life together and move forward. And I don't think her personal life is any of our business, especially since SHE hasn't done anything wrong.
She didn't fool around so why is her judgement in question? As to why spouses stay together after one or the other cheats, that is really between them and whether they can rebuild their marriage. They might just love each other and be true friends.
Sure seems like not only great testament to family values but also a great example of christian forgiveness - something the other side mouths but exhibits none of.
Why aren't you questioning the judgement of Guiliani or Gingrich - both well known cheaters?
Personally, I don't believe that he really fooled around. I think it was a practiced political scandal to attract attention away from some real issues. Whether or not he really did it was inconsequential--it was planned. Still, I don't think voting for Hillary is wise. Especially if you don't want to be forced to spend 20% of your income on Health Care, or else be fined and eventually jailed.
First part is fairly irrelevant. Though definitely not in the very positive category by most people's accounts. I am sure that Hillary herself wished it had never happened. Though apparently there was a very long pattern of such in Bill's past.
Perhaps she is the most qualified to run for president. She seems to eat up whatever it is about that part of politics, while others shy away from it because of conscience? I would say that Condi Rice is better in many areas improving intelligence and experience. Definintely a better musician and no husbands in her closet, so to speak.
* Sorry - Bush is not running and apparently Bill Clinton sort of is ..... remember two for one deal, part deux. So, Bush is off the table and Bill Clinton is back on. It's like taking away their cake and getting to eat yours, how delightful!
Get over it, Bush was re-elected by a wide margin and now he is not running. Billary will be good for some laughs, hopefully only in the campaign and not in the soiled White House, again. Maybe Hillary will be the FIRST President Clinton to get a majority of the vote????
It shows family values and pride and love beyond petty
trifling things duh
What makes you say she ';openly'; tolerated it? Were you there in the White House in the days following the Starr report? A fly on the wall, perhaps? Did you not think she read him the riot act? That she took into consideration their daughter and her own beliefs about commitment before opting to stay put? Did you stop to think, hey, this isn't my business any more than Monica was Ken Starr's?
Yes, she chose to stay with her husband..I can't see that as some character flaw. She is a strong woman, perfectly capable of leading our country. You're just mud-slinging.
People cheat every day...
and people are staying together every day.
It's harder to stay together.
It's easy to call it quits.
Besides... she is not going to let some hooker breakup her family.
Yes; as I'm aware, the family history of all candidates, but Romney, are highly questionable backgrounds for a US President.
Many women (and Men for that matter) stick by their spouses during all kinds of hardships....who the hell are YOU to judge?
So out of all the men running for office (republican AND democrat) wouldn't it be insulting that out of all the possibilities in all of America, That THESE particular men would be considered the most qualified?
What's good for the Goose is good for the Gander.
I think that you are way off the mark with these beliefs. Hillary Clinton showed a great deal of Class by her action as First Lady. She also demonstrated her deep sense of Family Values by staying in her marriage and 'working' on keeping her family together. Obviously Bill made a huge error in judgment, but whatever happened was a private and personal thing between Hillary and her FAMILY and we should not be involved. If you believe that for one moment JFK was loyal to his wife or George Washington (all those signs that said he slept here-wonder what THAT was about?) for that matter, then you are incredibly naive. Infidelity has been around since the beginning of time and I don't see it ending anytime soon. If anything I believe that Hillary has shown that she is strong enough to persevere through what must have been a difficult situation made worse by the news media and maintain her dignity. I believe that all women should aspire to have have her courage and fortitude rather than criticize her for her strong values.
It doesn't matter if you have a (D) behind your name.
Remember, Sen kennedy killed a woman yet he's a dnc hero.
Well, Hitlery is stupid enough to support a war when the Americans kill innocent children and steal their oil.
So, I am not surprised at all.
P.S.
We need change and the name of this change is: OBAMA.
If by ';tolerate'; you mean ';be okay with';, then I'd have to disagree with you.
Sane or insane, any woman would not be okay with something like that. I just think she was sucking it up. It's a nice quality to have when you're running for president.
Some of the smartest people and the most capable leaders in history were not what we'd consider smart in their personal affairs. I'm not necessarily endorsing Hillary, I'm just saying what she tolerates in her private life has nothing to do with her politics.
who knows
um excuse me ami liasion,
but monica lewinsky was caught on tape telling a friend about how she was screwing bill clinton yeah i doubt that it was just a scandal to ';cover up'; other issues
This woman was so gracious that she went through the most heart breaking and humiliating episodes of her life in public's eye and scrutiny and handled herself w/grace.
She is all the more respected for her handling of immense pressure from conservatives who always want to destroy her family and the bad words said behind her back. She has shown herself to be a leader in ALL areas of life.
She kept the country and her family together. This is not an ordinary man/woman infidelity. This is our national leadership. Have some respect. When Clinton was in office and we had a huge surplus and many people had money in their pockets and now they don't who cares who is fooling around?
At least he was not angry to go bomb places and get our soldiers killed.
A happy president = Peace %26amp; Prosperity
P.S. Kosovo was a peace mission to stop genocide in eastern europe and one of the few most successful attempts that saved thousands perhaps millions of lives
You are right, Bush has been foolin around for 7 years. Why bring up his poor wife?????
I agree with PR Lady, Hillary had her reasons for staying with him and it was to run for and hold public offices and to eventually be'; President.'; If voting for the war is bad judgement on her part then our whole House and Senate are guilty of no judgement because they used the same judgement she did.
In that case.. Is a candidate (Obama) showing good judgment by voting on a bill to send tax breaks to oil companies, when we're in trillions of dollars of debt? What about his statement regarding Pakistan?
Her personal life is irrelevant.. She's a strong %26amp; assertive woman, she will make a wonderful president..
Do you know what has happened behind closed doors in the Clinton household in the past 7 years? I didn't think so.
So why do you say she tolerates it? Maybe for political purposes, she doesn't want to make a big deal about it, or maybe she knew what she was getting into all those years ago? Fact is, many spouses forgive their loved ones for many offenses, including adultery. Who are we to judge whether she should or shouldn't forgive him?
I can't see how her decision in her marriage would indicate how qualified she is to run for President. Besides, how do you define qualified? She is 35 years old, a native born American, and lives here. She is qualified according to the Constitution of the U.S.
That being said, I will be voting for Obama. He is more Liberal, which is what we need.
This is something I always found amazing about american politics.
Bush ran two terms and was reponsible for creating a deficit, lying to the whole country, invading another and destroying thousands of lives. He is still there.
Clinton creates a surplus and doesn't start any needless wars, but commits an indescretion in the oral office and gets kicked out in disgrace.
Years later I can't believe anyone can stretch the link that far to Hillary. You are joking aren't you?
She had her motives to tolerate that; RUNNING FOR THE PRESIDENCY!!!!
She's stupid. She supported this dumb war too... Thats not good Judgment !
If my spouse wants a divorce and leaves our home voluntarily, can I legally change the locks?
I am afraid she will damage our home in someway.If my spouse wants a divorce and leaves our home voluntarily, can I legally change the locks?
NOPE you can not. as long as they have a say in your residence, ie, name is on lease, or on the home deed, you can not do anything until your divorce is final. They still have rights to their possessions too.If my spouse wants a divorce and leaves our home voluntarily, can I legally change the locks?
You can change them but she can always hire a locksmith to come %26amp; open it. At least in California. I know because my mom's ex husband did that %26amp; the court said she could do whatever she wanted to get in because the house was under her name. So it really all depends.
Its still your home and since she left, you can change them. However it is still her home too until the divorce is final, she might make you give her a key. Its all still marital property until the divorce is over.
She left, you can do whatever you want.
NOPE you can not. as long as they have a say in your residence, ie, name is on lease, or on the home deed, you can not do anything until your divorce is final. They still have rights to their possessions too.If my spouse wants a divorce and leaves our home voluntarily, can I legally change the locks?
You can change them but she can always hire a locksmith to come %26amp; open it. At least in California. I know because my mom's ex husband did that %26amp; the court said she could do whatever she wanted to get in because the house was under her name. So it really all depends.
Its still your home and since she left, you can change them. However it is still her home too until the divorce is final, she might make you give her a key. Its all still marital property until the divorce is over.
She left, you can do whatever you want.
I am a new father and fairly new spouse? How does child care expenses work with taxes?
It seems as if we can get money back paid to a babysitter that cannot be claimed on anyone's else taxes. Does our babysitter have to have some sort of day care license to qualify and I should pay the babysitter with checks to have some sort of payment proof? Please help..I am a new father and fairly new spouse? How does child care expenses work with taxes?
If the sitter does the job in your home, she is an household employee. You are responsible for paying half of the FICA tax, and withholding, if they request it.
More reasonable, is to take your child to some daycare home or daycare place, or the babysitter's home. She needs a license if it is required by state law. Most places, taking care of a kid or two does not require a license, and some states are more lenient than others. If she requires a license and doesn't have one, you cannot claim the dependent care deduction.
Checks are a good solution, as are records you keep. In reality, you will probably pay way more than the maximum you are allowed to deduct anyway.
If you or your spouse are ';stay at home,'; no deduction is allowed.I am a new father and fairly new spouse? How does child care expenses work with taxes?
If the child care is so both you and your spouse can work, fill out form 2441 and attach it to your return. You don't get anywhere near ALL the money back, but do get some of it taken off your tax bill if you have any tax liability.
It can be a private sitter, doesn't have to be a licensed daycare facility.
You should always pay with checks to have proof of payment. You don't have to provide it to the IRS unless they ask for it, but it's just good practice to have proof of payment.
If the sitter provides the service in your home, you are a household employer and have to withhold certain taxes and pay payroll taxes from the sitter's pay. See IRS Pub 926 http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p926.pdf for further information.
If you pay a sitter so that you (and your spouse, if married) can work OR you can work and your spouse attend school (or if your spouse is disabled and unable to care for your child) then you may qualify for the Child %26amp; Dependent Care Credit. See IRS Pub 503 http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p503.pdf for information on that. To claim the credit the provider cannot be a dependent on YOUR tax return but CAN be someone else's dependent.
If the sitter does the job in your home, she is an household employee. You are responsible for paying half of the FICA tax, and withholding, if they request it.
More reasonable, is to take your child to some daycare home or daycare place, or the babysitter's home. She needs a license if it is required by state law. Most places, taking care of a kid or two does not require a license, and some states are more lenient than others. If she requires a license and doesn't have one, you cannot claim the dependent care deduction.
Checks are a good solution, as are records you keep. In reality, you will probably pay way more than the maximum you are allowed to deduct anyway.
If you or your spouse are ';stay at home,'; no deduction is allowed.I am a new father and fairly new spouse? How does child care expenses work with taxes?
If the child care is so both you and your spouse can work, fill out form 2441 and attach it to your return. You don't get anywhere near ALL the money back, but do get some of it taken off your tax bill if you have any tax liability.
It can be a private sitter, doesn't have to be a licensed daycare facility.
You should always pay with checks to have proof of payment. You don't have to provide it to the IRS unless they ask for it, but it's just good practice to have proof of payment.
If the sitter provides the service in your home, you are a household employer and have to withhold certain taxes and pay payroll taxes from the sitter's pay. See IRS Pub 926 http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p926.pdf for further information.
If you pay a sitter so that you (and your spouse, if married) can work OR you can work and your spouse attend school (or if your spouse is disabled and unable to care for your child) then you may qualify for the Child %26amp; Dependent Care Credit. See IRS Pub 503 http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p503.pdf for information on that. To claim the credit the provider cannot be a dependent on YOUR tax return but CAN be someone else's dependent.
Can a spouse's debt cause a property in trust to be sold to pay the debt?
If a property is in trust for 2 brothers (California), can one of the brothers' spouse's debt cause the property to be sold? The spouse is not on the trust or deed.Can a spouse's debt cause a property in trust to be sold to pay the debt?
That's easy: No.Can a spouse's debt cause a property in trust to be sold to pay the debt?
No. only the parties directly involved in the trust or deed having a debt would cause the property to be sold.
That's easy: No.Can a spouse's debt cause a property in trust to be sold to pay the debt?
No. only the parties directly involved in the trust or deed having a debt would cause the property to be sold.
What kind of activities you share with your spouse?
how is your relationship with your spouse, is it just limited for ';pillow talk'; and having lunches together, [i know this could be a dream to do for some couples]
do you go walking together? running? or do you play chess or cards or a board game like ';Risk'; together? do make food together? do you clean the house together ;)? do you go shopping together?
what comes in your mind?
in other words: how do you define the concept of ';Sharing';?
singles and married are encouraged to answer.What kind of activities you share with your spouse?
It's been a great 3yrs, for me and my spouse. We do everything together, and go everywhere together except work! We keep our relationship alive. Have a powder fight, walk up to him and make a funny face, funny works, laughter is good!!!What kind of activities you share with your spouse?
We do everything together, it's pathetic but fantastic at the same time. We hike together, we camp together, we talk to each other every day for, like, 7 hours, we play games with each other, we e-mail each other, we do grocery shopping together, we text each other, sometimes shower together, eat together, we laugh with each other. For 3 years.
The only things we don't do together is mall shopping and, like, reading books. Or internet stuff.
Even though I'm not married yet.
i think besides,eating together,';pillow talk';,etc,like that i think going on a walk,goin to see a movie with each other,going out to eat sometimes play cards,(i love cards,and he has to love it to haha)
shopping together of course i don't mind sharing anything with him whats mine is his,if he wants space every now and then to hang out with his friends and my friends come over to the house,i don't mind at all,sometimes its not always good to be 24/7 with him because we will start to annoy each other but i would atleast preffur romantic times together to make us love each other more instead of that love decreasing
Well.. Im still single, but I'd love to do there things together, esp food together and out for lunch, I hope he would be able to go for walks after a tiring day of work, about shopping, I'd love to go with him for his shoppings, but diffenitly i won't take him shopping with me, he will hate me, lol, and get bored, I really go shopping with certain imagination and excepecting to find thaat and buy, he'll think im crazy:D, Pillow talks are very nice
:) i like this question!
MM we share many things together ,
like going to the club
walk in the track
watch football together specially AHLY matches and champions league
share breakfast, dinner, lunch
hanging out, shopping together..
play playstation together '; !! ';
traveling ,
going to the movies
sure if we had kids we share many stuff with them and it will be te greatest time.. isA
not really share cleaning he house cause its my job :(
not sharing pillow talk cause we go to bed when we are already slept =D
sharing is about doing all you can and even what you dont like wit your partner just because you love each other...
Sharing means to share happiness in good times as well as supporting and consoling in bad times. We also share opinion and we share in bringing up the children.
Well of course we have the pillow talk thing, but we bowl, do yard work, take the kids to there activities, we love to travel. xox
lots and lots of sexual intercourse.:)
I don't have one...... but i like your question...... and I like to share my good moments .....and bad ones sometimes with people I Love.....
My Friend: Lets imagine that we are making a company with someone, as an example : Trading company: we need to do the following:
1) Arrange the capital of the company (in marriage case , the acceptance , love and respect)
2)Agree on the aim of the company( in the marriage , the new family)
3) Determine the duties and the rights,, the responsibilities and the possibilities (I do not need to explain that)
So in any cooperation ,we have to work together to achieve the target required,, A Doctor , can have an engineer as a partner, to make a contracting company, they are different , But they have to work together , talk together and share activities to fulfill the need of this company,,,In the marriage (company) ,,, we have to find lots of common aspects in order to pass at least the first period of the marriage,, thanks God,, in a while , part of the aim , will take most of both the couple's time, and there will be , obliged common activities which are: taking care of the new born, and struggling in life to arrange for them the reasons to succeed ,, the only problem that when the kids are older, and this all time is not needed anymore, the couples had to train themselves to have common activities otherwise the old house will collapse. We saw lots of similar stories,,,
I myself would share in lots activities but that depends also on my choice of my spouse,, I want one (at least I wanted long time before now) someone who can share my interests in arts, and traveling,,, someone who can share the interest in my business (when I had one) someone who can argue me with respect like I could argue her with respect concerning different fields of life,,, It is not sharing to go to the movies together,, It is sharing to discuses this movie with our point of views later,,,
That was my idea of marriage,,, then I woke up recently and i found I was so stupid to plan how would be the relation,,,simply , because millions and millions are married, had families - with as you say in your q a pillow talk only,, and at the end they have ,someone (each others) and some kids who would take care of them when they are not capable,,,it is bad that we seek idealism and the idealism is so simple than we thought,, the correct answer of any problem is the easiest one,LET NATURE TAKE ITS PATH,,,,Mesh kedah wal ah?
my married life is very similar to what my single life was. There is personal space to the point that it's as exciting as dating someone. I know this is odd, but I'd very much like to have him as a lover next door and have managed to make that a possibility. i.e., getting property that is spacious and zoned for more than 1 home to be built. I will have a bridge modified on the property that notifies him of whether I'm up for some interaction or not. Bridge up means do not cross and down means the opposite, of course. We are VERY different ppl., yet we've found a way for our hearts and souls to remain connected. He's highly organized and a neat freak, i am not. perhaps i'm just a freak. so one solution to that was having a separate kitchen for each of us and a lot of space in the house until the other one gets built. anyway, it doesn't get boring this way. i know of a successfully married japanese-chinese couple who lived across the street from one another in Berkeley, Ca. they have been married for over 35 years. to me being married does not mean u r stuck in a submarine style living situation for the remainder of your life. We travel together (then during travel time/living abroad this living situation doesn't work out well, but i still enjoy him since it's really a temporary thing), eat out together, watch movies together, I'm dressed accordingly as if it were a date picking me up when he comes to the door...keep our own hobbies we had before we met as well as trying new adventures + keeping the hobbies we developed with one another. I hate routine, the only routine i want is to know he's always there for me and that he feel the same from my side. This way works and doesn't bore the hell out of either of us. He never hears what most men don't want to hear probably due to this living situation (he does not hear me tell him, ';go sleep on the couch';/nor does he hear the words ';no'; from me in matters that count to a typical man; it's rare that he's around to hear me complain/nag. I think that stems from ppl. being fed up w/ one another/taking each other for granted. less boring time together reduces that from happening). Yes, it's a very little understood arrangement, but it works for us + I'm thankful for it. We did live in a tiny apartment at the beginning, but it's more preferable to live this way.benefit makeup tips
do you go walking together? running? or do you play chess or cards or a board game like ';Risk'; together? do make food together? do you clean the house together ;)? do you go shopping together?
what comes in your mind?
in other words: how do you define the concept of ';Sharing';?
singles and married are encouraged to answer.What kind of activities you share with your spouse?
It's been a great 3yrs, for me and my spouse. We do everything together, and go everywhere together except work! We keep our relationship alive. Have a powder fight, walk up to him and make a funny face, funny works, laughter is good!!!What kind of activities you share with your spouse?
We do everything together, it's pathetic but fantastic at the same time. We hike together, we camp together, we talk to each other every day for, like, 7 hours, we play games with each other, we e-mail each other, we do grocery shopping together, we text each other, sometimes shower together, eat together, we laugh with each other. For 3 years.
The only things we don't do together is mall shopping and, like, reading books. Or internet stuff.
Even though I'm not married yet.
i think besides,eating together,';pillow talk';,etc,like that i think going on a walk,goin to see a movie with each other,going out to eat sometimes play cards,(i love cards,and he has to love it to haha)
shopping together of course i don't mind sharing anything with him whats mine is his,if he wants space every now and then to hang out with his friends and my friends come over to the house,i don't mind at all,sometimes its not always good to be 24/7 with him because we will start to annoy each other but i would atleast preffur romantic times together to make us love each other more instead of that love decreasing
Well.. Im still single, but I'd love to do there things together, esp food together and out for lunch, I hope he would be able to go for walks after a tiring day of work, about shopping, I'd love to go with him for his shoppings, but diffenitly i won't take him shopping with me, he will hate me, lol, and get bored, I really go shopping with certain imagination and excepecting to find thaat and buy, he'll think im crazy:D, Pillow talks are very nice
:) i like this question!
MM we share many things together ,
like going to the club
walk in the track
watch football together specially AHLY matches and champions league
share breakfast, dinner, lunch
hanging out, shopping together..
play playstation together '; !! ';
traveling ,
going to the movies
sure if we had kids we share many stuff with them and it will be te greatest time.. isA
not really share cleaning he house cause its my job :(
not sharing pillow talk cause we go to bed when we are already slept =D
sharing is about doing all you can and even what you dont like wit your partner just because you love each other...
Sharing means to share happiness in good times as well as supporting and consoling in bad times. We also share opinion and we share in bringing up the children.
Well of course we have the pillow talk thing, but we bowl, do yard work, take the kids to there activities, we love to travel. xox
lots and lots of sexual intercourse.:)
I don't have one...... but i like your question...... and I like to share my good moments .....and bad ones sometimes with people I Love.....
My Friend: Lets imagine that we are making a company with someone, as an example : Trading company: we need to do the following:
1) Arrange the capital of the company (in marriage case , the acceptance , love and respect)
2)Agree on the aim of the company( in the marriage , the new family)
3) Determine the duties and the rights,, the responsibilities and the possibilities (I do not need to explain that)
So in any cooperation ,we have to work together to achieve the target required,, A Doctor , can have an engineer as a partner, to make a contracting company, they are different , But they have to work together , talk together and share activities to fulfill the need of this company,,,In the marriage (company) ,,, we have to find lots of common aspects in order to pass at least the first period of the marriage,, thanks God,, in a while , part of the aim , will take most of both the couple's time, and there will be , obliged common activities which are: taking care of the new born, and struggling in life to arrange for them the reasons to succeed ,, the only problem that when the kids are older, and this all time is not needed anymore, the couples had to train themselves to have common activities otherwise the old house will collapse. We saw lots of similar stories,,,
I myself would share in lots activities but that depends also on my choice of my spouse,, I want one (at least I wanted long time before now) someone who can share my interests in arts, and traveling,,, someone who can share the interest in my business (when I had one) someone who can argue me with respect like I could argue her with respect concerning different fields of life,,, It is not sharing to go to the movies together,, It is sharing to discuses this movie with our point of views later,,,
That was my idea of marriage,,, then I woke up recently and i found I was so stupid to plan how would be the relation,,,simply , because millions and millions are married, had families - with as you say in your q a pillow talk only,, and at the end they have ,someone (each others) and some kids who would take care of them when they are not capable,,,it is bad that we seek idealism and the idealism is so simple than we thought,, the correct answer of any problem is the easiest one,LET NATURE TAKE ITS PATH,,,,Mesh kedah wal ah?
my married life is very similar to what my single life was. There is personal space to the point that it's as exciting as dating someone. I know this is odd, but I'd very much like to have him as a lover next door and have managed to make that a possibility. i.e., getting property that is spacious and zoned for more than 1 home to be built. I will have a bridge modified on the property that notifies him of whether I'm up for some interaction or not. Bridge up means do not cross and down means the opposite, of course. We are VERY different ppl., yet we've found a way for our hearts and souls to remain connected. He's highly organized and a neat freak, i am not. perhaps i'm just a freak. so one solution to that was having a separate kitchen for each of us and a lot of space in the house until the other one gets built. anyway, it doesn't get boring this way. i know of a successfully married japanese-chinese couple who lived across the street from one another in Berkeley, Ca. they have been married for over 35 years. to me being married does not mean u r stuck in a submarine style living situation for the remainder of your life. We travel together (then during travel time/living abroad this living situation doesn't work out well, but i still enjoy him since it's really a temporary thing), eat out together, watch movies together, I'm dressed accordingly as if it were a date picking me up when he comes to the door...keep our own hobbies we had before we met as well as trying new adventures + keeping the hobbies we developed with one another. I hate routine, the only routine i want is to know he's always there for me and that he feel the same from my side. This way works and doesn't bore the hell out of either of us. He never hears what most men don't want to hear probably due to this living situation (he does not hear me tell him, ';go sleep on the couch';/nor does he hear the words ';no'; from me in matters that count to a typical man; it's rare that he's around to hear me complain/nag. I think that stems from ppl. being fed up w/ one another/taking each other for granted. less boring time together reduces that from happening). Yes, it's a very little understood arrangement, but it works for us + I'm thankful for it. We did live in a tiny apartment at the beginning, but it's more preferable to live this way.
Filed injured spouse allocation, how long before I hear anything?
I filed an injured spouse allocation form because the IRS took my refund to apply to my husbands back taxes. We are seperated and almost finished with our divorce. The back taxes are from his self employment and I was not involved in any of it. He also owes me $16,000 in back child support. Does anyone know how long before I hear anything from the IRS? And has anyone in this situation been granted their refund?Filed injured spouse allocation, how long before I hear anything?
The injured spouse form is only going to apply if you filed MFJ with him this year and there was a refund on the 2007 return that was applied to a year that you didn't file with him.
If the 2007 tax return showed a balance due, it won't change that. If the amount owed is more than the stimulus, that wouldn't make a difference either.
The *other* form is form 8857, innocent spouse and only about 25% of those are granted in all or in part.Filed injured spouse allocation, how long before I hear anything?
It depends on when you filed your tax return. This is the busiest time of year for the IRS so it takes a while, but within 6-8 weeks you should get some sort of answer.
There are always variables, but generally speaking from what you said, you should get some relief, but they could dissallow you if you are shown anywhere an part owner of the business. This is a Schedule C business I presume - look at the return and see if you are shown as a joint owner of the business. Your name will be at the very top of the form with his, but look down lower (top third) of the Sched. C and you'll see that info.
The IRS does what they do and you always can appeal their decision if it doesn't go your way - it doesn't hurt to try. Many people win appeals and you can do it yourself. Just write them a letter with your social security number so they can identify you.. hope this helps.
Kathy
These are not matters that zip through the system. Allow eight weeks and then contact IRS if you haven't heard from them. If you care to call before then, be prepared for a wait. The lines are jammed with people trying to find out why they haven't yet received their stimulus payments.
The injured spouse form is only going to apply if you filed MFJ with him this year and there was a refund on the 2007 return that was applied to a year that you didn't file with him.
If the 2007 tax return showed a balance due, it won't change that. If the amount owed is more than the stimulus, that wouldn't make a difference either.
The *other* form is form 8857, innocent spouse and only about 25% of those are granted in all or in part.Filed injured spouse allocation, how long before I hear anything?
It depends on when you filed your tax return. This is the busiest time of year for the IRS so it takes a while, but within 6-8 weeks you should get some sort of answer.
There are always variables, but generally speaking from what you said, you should get some relief, but they could dissallow you if you are shown anywhere an part owner of the business. This is a Schedule C business I presume - look at the return and see if you are shown as a joint owner of the business. Your name will be at the very top of the form with his, but look down lower (top third) of the Sched. C and you'll see that info.
The IRS does what they do and you always can appeal their decision if it doesn't go your way - it doesn't hurt to try. Many people win appeals and you can do it yourself. Just write them a letter with your social security number so they can identify you.. hope this helps.
Kathy
These are not matters that zip through the system. Allow eight weeks and then contact IRS if you haven't heard from them. If you care to call before then, be prepared for a wait. The lines are jammed with people trying to find out why they haven't yet received their stimulus payments.
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